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The most important skill in parenting.

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Hi friend, Whenever I teach a class about the principles of positive parenting the #1 most important skill, and prerequisite to all the other things working is... Learning how to stay calm. Come to my webinar on Wednesday, April 2nd: "Calm In The Chaos: How To Parent Well Even When Things Feel Crazy ," to learn how to retrain your brain to stay calm EVEN WHEN things feel chaotic. Register Today! Why is it so important that YOU learn how to be calm? ➡️ Because you set the standard for behavior in your home. ➡️ Because you are ALWAYS teaching your child something. Your model speaks the loudest! ➡️ Because parenting is really all about parent behavior, not child behavior. Come listen to me teach LIVE, this Wednesday, April 2nd at 9:00pm CST or catch the replay anytime! We will discuss so many doable strategies to help YOU and your child stay calm. Can't wait to see you there! ​ ​ Unsubscribe | Update your profile | 110 N Interstate 35 Su...

As Promised, Here's Your Free Gift

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Hello ! Thank you so much for being a part of this course with me! Now...while the course is done, I most certainly am not. Weekly I'll send you emails that teach you how to use your power as a parent to create a life full of purpose! As promised, here is my gift for you. A free printable art piece as a visual reminder of what you have learned. ​ Download Your FREE Gift Do you want to change your home foundationally by learning how to be in control of yourself, model behaviors you'd like to see, let go of what doesn't matter and build on the good? I'll teach you how in my audio course, "4 Parenting Principles That Make a Difference in a Day" . This course has been life-changing for thousands of families, just like yours! It gives you all you need to create a legacy of love, safety, and lasting connection. Learn How the Audio Course Will Change Your Home Thank you so much for all that you do to make your home a safe p...

Lesson 3: What To Do Instead of Yelling

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Hello ! Let's be honest. You're child WILL: drive you crazy make messes move super slow pester each other be disrespectful or even worse, steal all the Nutella (gasp!) These are the very simple strategies that work wonders in helping you stay safe and model adult behavior. Strategy #1: Use Time Time is free. It's readily available to all of us. But we forget what an amazing resource it is! We can use time to: calm down think about what to do heal build connection wait for them to grow out of it! This can look like: 1) Simply walking away from a situation in order to give yourself time to think clearly. 2) Saying to your child "I need some time to think about this. I'll set the timer for 30 minutes and then we'll come back to it." 3) Realizing that the reason your child is having such a difficult time listening to you is because he feels disconnected. So you set aside some time each week to f...

Lesson 2: Why Yelling Doesn't Work

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Hello ! Why doesn't yelling work? Well, let's be clear here. It does work. In the short term. ​ If you scream at your child to "KNOCK IT OFF!" they will knock it off! Children are motivated by fear. We all are! But what we don't realize is that taking away a child's will has long-term negative effects. ​ Three Long Term Effects of Yelling 1) It creates an environment that is coercive. Your home becomes a home that children want to: escape from avoid and get even with As children age, they try to break free from the coercive environment that they are in. They reach out to peers for dependence because they can't rely on their parents for encouragement and love. This is not a good formula for success in adolescence! To learn more about the lasting effects of yelling, view my IG highlight on "yelling" HERE: VIDEO: "The Negative Effects of Yelling" ​ 2) Stopping behavior is not teachi...

An easy and silly April Fools' family tradition.

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Lesson 1: Why We Yell

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Hello ! So, Why Do You Yell? Here's what we know about emotion: anger is always secondary. ALWAYS. Anger is always hiding something else! Those hidden feelings are vulnerable. They look like shame, discouragement, inadequacy, sadness, embarrassment, anxiety, and the list goes on and on. Vulnerable feelings need protection so we guard them. Over time, those unresolved, protected emotions create within us an unknown core belief about ourselves. And there's our why. Discovery: Why Do YOU Get Angry? Now, I have some homework for you. (Don't worry, it's easy!) Let's discover your core beliefs . Step 1: Click the button below 👇 to download a document describing 4 CORE BELIEFS. Step 2: Print it out Step 3: Circle the statements that sound like you. Click HERE to Download the Worksheet This exercise is crucial to becoming a safe parent! It will teach you 3 ESSENTIAL SKILLS: Respect your feelings and acknowledge them...

Welcome to the Staying Safe Series

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Hello ! Welcome to my free course Staying Safe: Why We Yell, Why It Doesn't Work, and What To Do Instead. I am honored to be a part of your home and to teach you some life-changing tools that will add peace to your family and make parenting a whole lot easier for you. I promise! I Struggled with Being in Control A little bit about me: When our family was just starting out, I really struggled with being in control of myself. My oldest daughter (bless her heart) was unfortunately on the receiving end of all my frustration. I knew that what I was doing was wrong, but instead I directed all of those triggered and annoyed feelings onto her and what SHE was doing wrong. Fast forward several years when I learned about Positive Parenting. Life. Changing! In fact, it changed my life so much that I founded @simplyonpurpose , an Instagram feed that has grown over 650K followers in 7 years. What does it mean to "Stay Safe"? A safe parent is a...

How to stay calm in the HARDEST moments

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Hi friend, No parent plans to get angry. It just happens! I'll be teaching my webinar "Calm In The Chaos: How To Parent Well Even When Things Feel Crazy " LIVE next Wednesday, April 2nd, at 9:00pm CT. Join Me Next Week! This webinar will help lift you out of unwanted patterns and teach you how to stay calm even when things around you are crazy. You'll learn: What really gets in the way of staying calm How to retrain your brain to keep your cool Doable tools for success in responding to behaviors that will help long term These strategies change homes and make parenting so much more enjoyable! ​ PS - The webinar is 40 minutes long with a Q&A at the end. Don't worry if you can't make it live, there is always a replay! ​ Unsubscribe | Update your profile | 110 N Interstate 35 Suite 315-835, Round Rock, TX 78681 ​

Simple chores ideas by age!

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Hi friend, Do you need ideas for how your kiddos can help around the house? That are age appropriate? I've got you covered! This Thursday's "something good" is a big list of age-appropriate chore ideas ! Take a look, and start teaching your child a new skill today. See the List! ​ ​ ​ Unsubscribe | Update your profile | 110 N Interstate 35 Suite 315-835, Round Rock, TX 78681 ​

Have you lost a child before? 🐧

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Hi friend, If you've ever lost a child before, it is TERRIFYING! I hear so many parents say that they wish they would have talked through this situation with their child beforehand. This is the reason I created this month's Teach Me How lesson, titled " What to Do If You Get Lost: Learning How to Stay Safe, Get Help, and Be Found Quickly ." Download Today! ​ In this darling zoo-themed resource, kiddos will learn: The 3 steps to follow if they get lost What TO do, and what NOT to do if you can't find your family Who to look for to ask for help How to make a safety plan for places you frequent This is SUCH a practical lesson, and the role plays are great practice so your child will have tools to use if they are ever separated from you. ​ ​ Unsubscribe | Update your profile | 110 N Interstate 35 Suite 315-835, Round Rock, TX 78681 ​

(FREE) 4 Ways to help kiddos have fun at a museum

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Happy Thursday friend! Have you ever been in a museum, trying to learn something amazing... and your kid is just driving you crazy?? (that may or may not have happened to me just recently) My "something good" for today is a FREE guide for how to help your kiddos to have fun at a museum. ​ Add to your cart and the code "MUSEUMFUN" is automatically applied at checkout to make the printable free! Download Today! You'll love the simple ideas that will keep you kiddos engaged AND happy! And helping them have positive feelings about family trips is a win-win. ​ PS - Need more ideas? Read my post for 4 tips to make traveling with your kids easier ! ​ Unsubscribe | Update your profile | 110 N Interstate 35 Suite 315-835, Round Rock, TX 78681 ​

How to encourage peacemakers in your home

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Hi friend, This Friday is the last day to get this month's Teach Me How resource for only $6!! It's called, " Be a Peacemaker: Learning How to Find What Matters Most and Help Others See it Too ." You will love the object lesson! It teaches children how to filter out all the stuff that doesn't matter and only focus on what does. Start Teaching Today ​ If you would like to teach your child what being a peacemaker looks like, this printable will help your child to: learn to stay focused on the most important things see that it takes bravery to be a peacemaker practice making choices that help long term As always, the Teach Me How printable subscription comes with an interactive lesson, a hands-on activity, discussion questions, a visual cue, and role plays. ALL this for only $6!! ​ The world needs peacemakers! Let's start training them at home. ​ ​ Unsubscribe | Update your profile | 110 N Interstate 35 Suite 315-835, ...