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A super simple family activity for the New Year!

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Hi friend, It's the last day of 2024! I have really loved talking to my girls about their favorite parts of the last year. Here's a super simple family activity you can do today! Choose your family's "Best of" 2024! First, come up with 8-10 categories of favorite things your family members will vote on. Examples: family trip, book, game, meal, funny moment, holiday, at-home fun, new toy, or house project. Write each category on a piece of paper and lay all the papers out, or tape them to a wall. Give your kiddos some sticky notes, and have them write their favorites for each category. For younger children, ask them what they liked and write it for them. Take a family vote for each category, and consolidate all the answers into a "Best of 2024" list for your family. Once you're finished, you can even talk about family goals or adventures you want to have in the upcoming year. I hope you have as much fun as we do reminiscing about ...

As promised, here’s your gift!

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Hello friend! Thank you so much for being a part of this course with me! I'm so proud of you for working on changing this part of your home! Do you want a happier home forever? If you like what you have learned already, you will love my AUDIO COURSE: " 4 Parenting Principles That Make a Difference in a Day " Right now the course is on a MAJOR SALE! Until Dec 31st it is 50% off!!! Get the Audio Course for 50% Off! This course teaches you how to parent so that your home FOUNDATIONALLY changes long term. You'll learn to teach behavior effectively, model it well, reinforce what is good, and ignore what doesn't matter. The course has changed thousands of families, just like yours. As promised, here is my gift for you. A free printable art piece as a visual reminder of what you have learned. Download the FREE Printable! Remember, you have the power to change your home. Stay safe my friend, ​ ​ Unsubscribe | Update your profile | ...

Lesson 2: Examples and script!

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Hello friend! Let's be honest. Your child WILL: back talk not want to do their chores ignore the directions that you give dislike vegetables have bad attitudes or even worse, steal all the Nutella (gasp!) These are the very simple strategies that work wonders in creating momentum and getting the good going. Strategy #1: Stay curious and open minded. Your kids have good ideas too, and the way that they are experiencing the world matters. So before you jump in with an agenda, LISTEN. Ask questions. Seek to understand. It builds trust and loyalty. This sounds like: "Tell me more about why you feel that way." "How can I help here?" "I believe you." Strategy #2: Give a high probability request. Help your kiddo get into their "yes brain" by asking them to do something that is an easier YES! Begin with something that they want to do, in order to get them to do what you want them to do. You can do this by: ...

Lesson 1: The Secret

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Hello friend! So, THE big Secret? It's something you've probably heard before, but now it's time for it to change your life: Behavioral Momentum. Simply put: you get the good behavior going and you keep it going. Why does it matter SO MUCH? Because the real secret: the person who has the greatest power to create positive behavioral momentum in children is THE PARENT. Understanding your ability to COMPLETELY CHANGE THE MOMENTUM in your home, not only stops power struggles today, but long term ! Let me show you how creating behavioral momentum stops power struggles. Truth #1: Be what you want to see. Take a closer look at your own behavior. Why do certain things trigger worry or fear? It usually has far more to do with your own story than what's happening with your child. Our thoughts about the events in our lives (rather than the events themselves) are what cause us to get angry and rigid. Practice being a CALM AUTHORITY. Don't have buttons...

Welcome! The Secret To Ending Power Struggles Course

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Hello friend! Welcome to your free course, The Secret To Ending Power Struggles. I am so grateful to be a part of your home and to teach you life-changing tools that will add peace to your family and make parenting easier for you. I struggled with always wanting to be in control. When I started growing my family, my type A personality made it a real struggle to not get super frustrated when my kids wouldn't listen to me. My oldest daughter was the gateway to battles of who could assert their will the strongest! Fast forward several years when I learned about Positive Parenting. It completely changed my life. In fact, it changed my life so much that I founded ​@simplyonpurpose​ , and now teach positive parenting to a community of over 650K families. Why do we fall into power struggles? The real hidden reason? FEAR. We get stuck in a pattern that is driven by fear. We're afraid of what could happen if we aren't in charge, and our kids are afraid of n...

Celebrate your child's growth in 2024! (FREE printable!)

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Hi friend! As we near the end of 2024, I want to help you celebrate your amazing child! We've made several colors of blank certificates that you can present to your child in celebration of their growth in 2024. Some examples of what to award the certificates for: A goal they have achieved A value they have learned A skill or talent they have improved A quality or characteristic you want to highlight ...or any way they have grown this year! Download Your FREE Certificates! ​ Put on a little ceremony or pull the certificates out at the dinner table, either way have fun with it! And watch their eyes light up when they are recognized for the good that they do. ​ ​ Unsubscribe | Update your profile | 110 N Interstate 35 Suite 315-835, Round Rock, TX 78681 ​

Help your child have a giving heart.

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Hi friend, The holidays are here, and it is the perfect time to teach our children how to be generous. I'm so grateful to share this month's Teach Me How resource, " Have a Giving Heart: Learning How to Be Generous and Happily Share What You Have. " My friend, this world needs more kindness, goodness, and love. Let's teach our children how their "Tiny Kindnesses" can make a big impact! Download it Today ​ In the printable, you'll find the most heartwarming story about a little girl who learns what it feels like to truly give from her heart. What's included in the resource: A lesson about being generous, even when it's with something you really want for yourself. An activity where kiddos can tear off "Tiny Kindnesses" from a heart to get simple, quick ideas of how to be generous right then. Role plays for practicing generosity: not just being generous with your things or money, but also with your time, your t...

25 ways to fill your child's cup (free printable!)

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Hi friend, This holiday season, give your child the gift of a full cup. ​ Imagine with me for a second your child has an internal emotional cup. Life around them contributes to how full their cup is. When it's empty, they struggle (and oftentimes misbehave!) But the wonderful news is that their cups are SO easy to fill. All it takes is a bit of your undivided attention! I've created a free printable for you, "25 Ways to Fill Your Child's Cup This Holiday Season. " ​ The code OVERFLOWING is automatically applied at checkout to make the printable free! Download Free Printable HERE ​ Amidst this busy season, make sure to slow things down for a bit and help your child feel seen and loved. Try some of these simple ideas and notice how your child's behavior changes for the better! ​ ​ Unsubscribe | Update your profile | 110 N Interstate 35 Suite 315-835, Round Rock, TX 78681 ​

How to encourage "telling the truth" in your home.

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Hi friend, I saw that you looked into my webinar, " The Truth About Lying ," a few weeks ago and I have wonderful news! You can still learn how to encourage your children to tell the truth, and how to not cue a lie. Purchase the replay and you'll have access to the recording for 90 days. Purchase the Replay! As a bonus, I also included several printables, including "5 Love Languages for Kids," and "30 Ways to Connect with Your Child." And of course, those printables are yours forever. Come learn how you can help your child stop lying today! ​ ​ Unsubscribe | Update your profile | 110 N Interstate 35 Suite 315-835, Round Rock, TX 78681 ​

How to help your child stop complaining.

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Hi friend, One of the most life changing ideas for my family was when we learned that the only way to be happy is to be grateful FIRST! Teach your kiddos to be grateful for things that even make their life "hard." Like a rainy day. Dirty laundry. Or homework. Or bugs!! And I have the perfect resource for you. This is the last week you can download this month's Teach Me How for only $6! it's called, " Be Grateful First: Learning How To Feel Gratitude And Express It ." Get it for $6 Today ​ If your child is struggling to feel true gratitude, the activities in this printable will help them practice and apply. Inside the printable: a lesson that teaches how to be grateful in ALL situations a game to learn soooo many different ways to show gratitude lots of practice showing gratitude in different scenarios through role plays The true antidote to complaining and entitlement? Gratitude. Gratitude is the bridge to joy! ​ ​ ...